In response to Anna's post about the neighbors...

Doesn't all this infertility secrecy, hurt and frustration (sometimes pain and grief too) make you realize how many people are going through bad things. Since my loss last year I now try to remember that around me are people who are hurting because they lost their father, or someone in their family is sick or things aren't going well in their life right now. There are some things that you can't say though you wish you could wear a badge sometimes and have people be nicer, more understanding.

Thanks for checking in on me.